How to Win One's heart?

its a really hard question, there is no right way to do it. Every girl have different standards of "winning" a heart. As for if you're just going to pick up chicks and gt laid i suppose there are lots of different ways. To win someone's heart, i believe you have to first attract their attention. You attract with either active or passive  way where you go talk to her yourself as active. Other way is only if you are a real distinct individual where you passively ignite her interest and she or him comes to find you. There are various way after that to win their heart. You can look fabulous, be charismatic, be atheletic, be heart warming and a all out nice guy. Be a cold bastard, a punk a what so ever as long as it suits her taste and your taste. There are just no one way to win a person's heart, but everyone usually have their own ways on doing such thing.

Should We Fear Change

No, change could be scary but it also means new possibility in life. I usually embrace changed but also reserve a sense of fear in my heart. Most of the time when i believe that something would be good, 100% of the time things don't turn out the way that i expect them to be "good". Therefore i hold in my mind a sense of awe to change but at the same time look forward to it. Change can be scary and people might not like it but i take it as a way to break free and change or even evolve yourself. I don't like to stay in a same place for too long, i like to break free from the past into the future. i embrace these changes and hope that it brings new life to my life.

How Do We Measure Progress

progress is a complicated thing to measure. In one sense progress could be an industrial global power, but the whole situation of the country is in turmoil. In other case the county could be in a peaceful situation however there are no technological advancement that have occur. I believe it is impossible to evaluate progress of a country looking it at a present moment. Progress of a country is evaluated through time and in the future as we look back to how we developed. For example, i believe the reign of Mao with his great leap at the moment was considered as progress, a leap to the future. However it wasn't into the future where they look back to discover that they have fallen back immensely as their society was incredibly behind culturally with the destruction of their history.

What Can Break Down Prejudice

I believe the thing that would break down prejudice the most effectively is mutual understanding. prejudice comes when we don't know fully on a situation. For example from Pride and prejudice, Elizabeth hated Darcy because she presumes that he is a terrible person. However after Darcy helped her and done all the other things including the letter, Elizabeth realized how noble Darcy is and broke down the barrier of the Prejudice.
Other prejudice such as between the blacks and whites or other ethnicity i believe could be break down by a willingness of understanding from both sides. If the two sides agree to understand each other and both culture, there will be no discrimination or prejudice. Well, i don't think that would actually happen until a major catastrophe comes by and force people to do so.

What is Beauty

beauty is a rather philosophical question of what is beauty. I studied quite a few philosophy of the concept of beauty and in the end i find Khant's idea of beauty best suit what i feel. Beauty is the moment when your part of the mind that deals with perception experience a connection between the mind and the thing that you are seeing. It is the moment of connection that is consider as beauty. Despite the fact that he says beauty has no purpose except to make us feel, as feel that beauty could integrate both idea and the feeling of beauty together.

How can Guilt overpower a man's life

i have seen alot of movie about this idea but never met anyone with such powerful guilt. I have done a lot of things in my past, and there are a few things i have done before did overpower me in specific times. This was a guilt about something that happened to a friend, or was a friend of mine. Ever since that action that i did, everytime something arose that have something to relate to it i remember my actions that day. There are guilt such as killing an innocent man that have haunted people for years. Such an event was most successfully portrayed in the movie "In Bruges" the main character was haunted by his accidental killing of a innocent kid and was never able to walk out of it. The simple mistake led to the ever lasting guilt till the of his life.

How Do You Live Life to the Fullest?

It's difficult to say what it means to live life to its fullest. I have a whole bucket list of the things to do i had to accomplish before i die. I bet doing everything on my bucket list would make my life be lived to the fullest. For starters, i have a gazillion places that i wanted to visit and another weird list of things that i had to do before i die. Things like lick the liberty bell, jump off a building or something spams across the list. However, after all those crazy insane lists, i think what could give me the best pleasure before i die is have a family. A brilliant wife, kids, a house and i myself a decent job. What do i mean by decent? a life job of make art and teach. I wanted to be a professor in an art college where i could exercise my love to talking and painting at the same time. With this profession, i can also come hand in hand (most potentially) fame as an distinguish artist. If i can achieve the stuff in the end, watch my kids grow and able to take care of themselves i say my life is done without regret.